writing our ceremony and vows

So I ordered a couple books that were recommended to me by a recently married co-worker:
A Wedding Ceremony to Remember: Perfect Words for the Perfect Wedding
Weddings from the Heart: Contemporary and Traditional Ceremonies for an Unforgettable Wedding

Sunday we're going to get this thing written. For the first time in my life I kinda wish we were religious so this would already be done :) I flipped through both books and they seem good., sweet but not cheesy. It's a fine line.